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Is Being Overcautious Beneficial Regarding International Dating?

online dating scamsMen, just like women, also want to find that special person. They may have had multiple marriages, failed relationships, ran out of options, and have myriad of reasons why they can’t find that special woman out there for now.

Suddenly, an office mate suggested looking into international dating. Something to think about.

Many men have heard that women from other countries of the world are different and not that spoiled compared to the women in the US.

Very often that is true. Life is not always a picnic for them at home, and finding a good husband, taking care of home and children is something taught at a younger age.

So where do you start?

There are many international dating websites where you can find plenty of beautiful and intelligent women from other countries. Even if it is not marriage you have in mind, learning from other cultures can be very interesting and exciting. 

International Online Relationships

Online dating opens up a big world to everyone and you won’t have trouble finding someone on an international dating site. But as in any  relationship, one should be prudent and take his time at that preliminary “getting to know you stage”.

If you have not dated anyone for a while, you may feel like your heart burst and you fell in love in 24 hours. Don’t mistake attention for love. Most likely she is thousands of miles away, and you should be cautious and keep your options open at the same time.

Begin Your International Dating Search

Once you start your international dating search, keep in mind the fact that there may be some cultural differences with people you are going to meet.

No doubt you have heard about numerous scamming websites, which is why you should apply intelligence and some basic understanding and concepts. It is entirely possible though to find that great genuine woman for a long term relationship. Your international dating search may take a while. These relationships should be cultivated like a fine wine.

Applying Common Sense to International Dating

Keep in mind that anyone can say anything about himself or herself on the Internet. Sometimes, it can be frustrating to look through numerous profiles and sort them out. Hopefully, you’ll be able to select a small pool of women to start meeting in person. 

In this age of cyber-crime and scams, applying common sense until identity is verified is a must. Listen to your gut feeling as well.

Be Aware of Online Dating Scams

Some women are desperate for a one-way ticket to the US and will say anything. Others will be true and honest and move cautious as they are giving up their family, friends and home. Sometimes, men might get taken advantage of. If the woman you are attracted to begins to present sob stories that require money to be sent to her, more than likely, you have not found the one you can trust and it is better to sever conversation.

At first, you may feel like you don’t have that much time for this, but the time is on your side. Cultivate the friendship slowly. Letter writing is a lost art but can be a way of your simple prudent path to investigation. Postal marks often are ignored, but make sure you pay attention to everything.

Emails that are very long and flowery are another item to suspect. Sometimes women do not write their own emails, but someone who is more fluent in English. If the woman is working in a group, tenses in the email or change in grammar are easy to detect. Look at pictures carefully.

There are websites that will do background checks but some are fraudulent. Due diligence on these sites is just as important as the woman you are talking to. But often there are ex-patriots who live in the country and are willing to do the work for you for a fee. An investment of this nature as you progress is very intelligent and worth the money.

Often you can Google an email address and come up with something. You can also check domains to see where the originating owner is and how long in business. Dick Tracy is not here, but having awareness and taking your time will yield the truth.

You Need to Be Honest With Yourself

From the beginning of your search, make up your mind to be honest. Can you even afford to visit with the woman? Can she pay her way? If the relationship progresses, are you ready to bring her over to your home country?

You want to be very sure. Many men are afraid of being alone, and look positively at the first woman they meet, spend a lot of money only to have their heart broken. Decide from the very beginning of your international dating what you are willing to do and how far you want to go.

Main International Dating Rule: Proceed With Caution

Trust includes maintaining a lot of your personal information until you feel secure. Common sense tells you not to give out your home address, family information, credit card numbers or anything that can lead to your identity being stolen. You want to be sure as you proceed and don’t forget your “gut feeling”.

Some of the international dating sites have profiles that have been verified. Valid Identity Profiles is a good way to be secure. You also want to be sure if you are paying for the information that the site is using secure protocols.

Another tip is to have the email reviewed by the headers. You can request from your mail client to show long headers and many programs are on line to put the header in. It will identify the origin of the email.

Enjoy Your New Success

So, you did your share of international dating and, finally, met someone incredible. She is authentic, you have been writing to and calling her for several months. After you met her several times, your heart tells you that you are in love.

The time and effort you put into this international dating was certainly worth it. You have been waiting for this moment for a long time. There are many suitable women that meet your criteria and willing to start a great relationship leading to marriage. This is exactly what you wanted. Now enjoy your new partner and have a great life.

Have you ever done international dating? Would you like to share your experience with us?


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4 Responses to “Is Being Overcautious Beneficial Regarding International Dating?”

  1. Rosanna Says:

    Only losers want to go to another country to find a bride. If you are a decent guy, you can always find the right gal right here.

  2. Elena Says:

    Hi Rosanna, thanks for your comment. I think everyone is different and some people who are fascinated by certain cultures might consider a marriage with a person from a different country. I knew an American musician who went to Japan and met a cute Japanese girl during his concert, fell in love and brought her to the US. It’s been 15 years, and they are still together and got 2 children together. So, you never know…

  3. Effie Says:

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